View Full Version : How easy/difficult is it for you to make and keep friendships?
Project Blaze
03-24-2010, 10:25 PM
Sooo, how easy or difficult is it for you to make and keep friendships? Just wondering if anyone was as jacked as me as far as that whole thing went. I can't seem to keep friendships for long for one reason or another. Either it's the people or just me with the problem(s). In any case, I can't seem to get a handle on 'em. Even though I'm a loyal person, that might not be enough sometimes. I guess life is just unpredictable in the end. But can't really do much about it, so, bLeh. There's me! XD
So, what about you peeps? I'm interested in finding out. ^_^
Jaykub
03-24-2010, 10:40 PM
I have only had a few time of where it happened with friend of what they are. Its hard to make not leave where what its of when its like that. I sometimes find it like a guilt trip of love and fun.
Its not like where it has been came to. So I hope that when come time does when I know what that.
I have no problem making friends. weird thread man....
LemonRising
03-24-2010, 10:44 PM
Its not hard for me to make friends or maintain a friendship really.
Sometimes people bug me though so I slowly lose contact with them, but thats because i don't want to know them anymore lol
OTHERWISE
YAY FRIENDS?
CLOSE FRIENDS is another thing altogether though.
EpsilonX
03-25-2010, 12:52 AM
i have a lot of "friends" that are basically people i talk to and hang out with for a bit and then just kind of fade apart from them. But if like I actually become close friends with somebody which rarely happens, then usually we're friends for a while. I'm a bit of a hard to deal with friend though from time to time, some people can't put up with me.
like if i meet somebody, if its a guy then usually it doesn't go beyond "whats up bro" and develop into a full friendship. if its a girl, we never really end up hanging out for some reason. except whenever i see a girl i'm friends with its like omg hey *hug* instead of *head nod*
basically its either close friends or bust when it comes to me. my only like "buddies" like people i talk to but don't chill with a lot are like close friends of my friends or people i met online but don't know IRL
Project Blaze
03-25-2010, 08:37 AM
That's kewLz. All of it. I guess I just have trouble making friends because I'm sort of the outcast. So, thinking about past "friends" prompted me to put this thread up. Maybe I just tried to make friends with the wrong people or somethin'. O_o
EpsilonX
03-25-2010, 02:33 PM
That's kewLz. All of it. I guess I just have trouble making friends because I'm sort of the outcast. So, thinking about past "friends" prompted me to put this thread up. Maybe I just tried to make friends with the wrong people or somethin'. O_o
d00d everybody who's an individual is an outcast. the really popular people with lots of friends make themselves what is socially acceptable. Just kinda chill and be yourself. let people come to you.
honestly i have no idea how old you are though so this advice may not apply to you, but i'm under the impression you're in high school or something.
KittyCat72
03-25-2010, 04:31 PM
Its not hard for me to make friends or maintain a friendship really.
Sometimes people bug me though so I slowly lose contact with them, but thats because i don't want to know them anymore lol
OTHERWISE
YAY FRIENDS?
CLOSE FRIENDS is another thing altogether though.
Completely agreed. I have a lot of friends, and I don't think there's a single thing I could say or do to lose some of them of my own accord. I might end up testing this though, if I get into Gatton Academy (I'll be finding out within a week) at which point I'll be going to a different school and would only be able to see the once a month max. I don't think they'd hate me for that or anything, but I may grow apart from some of my current friends.
Iceskater101
03-25-2010, 11:16 PM
I am pretty good with holding on to friendships
the friends I have now are really supportive and nice and plus I use my phone a lot so even if we kinda lose touch i can text them and then we become friends
but some friends I will have in one of my high school classes and then I will talk to them but then after a term goes by I don't talk to them anymore
I don't have problems making friends, but I have problems keeping them. I'm not entirely sure why... lately it's been a running trend of friends finding new significant others and totally ditching me...
nicepuppy
03-27-2010, 04:10 AM
Im horrible with keeping in touch with friends. Id rather stay home and play games by myself honestly
LemonRising
03-27-2010, 11:45 AM
I don't have problems making friends, but I have problems keeping them. I'm not entirely sure why... lately it's been a running trend of friends finding new significant others and totally ditching me...
That's just what happens.
Nothing wrong with you haha
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